Are your ducks in a row? It looks cute. It looks “together.” But sometimes, being in control is just another cage.
If I can line it all up, maybe nothing will fall apart. But that weight was never yours to carry. An Experience This is not just a workbook. It’s a space to notice what you’ve been carrying and gently choose something new. Each page is an invitation. Some will ask you questions. Some might ask more of your heart than your head. All of them are here to help you trace fear back to its lie… so you can walk forward in truth. There’s no rush. Just beg Begin here
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If I can line it all up, maybe nothing will fall apart. But that weight was never yours to carry. She sees everyone in place, but she is locked in. Control creates structure that ultimately restricts. If everything looks perfect, maybe no one will see the mess inside. Order isn’t the same as peace. She kept every door closed to avoid the unknown. But in trying to stay safe, she locked herself in. Control doesn’t always quack. Sometimes it hides like this.
Why did you begin to control? Who told you you had to? What if we could take you back… to the joyful, playful, unshamed girl God made you to be?
First, let’s see what tools you’ve been carrying without even knowing it. Below are pairs of tools. Each pair shows two ways we often try to stay in control. Tap the one you relate to most. After you choose, you can download a Truth Card with questions to help you reflect, release, and walk in freedom. (The Truth Cards are yours to download, reflect on, and keep.) You need a toolbox. But not one built from fear. Let’s fill it with what frees you— not what keeps you surviving.
This That? One puts things out. The other keep something alive.
This That? One is carried by the wind. The other tries to clean what’s already be forgiven.
One holds your process. The other counts what you’ve earned. This That?
Thank you for saying yes to this journey. Growth begins with honesty and the courage to do the inner work. You can explore more Truth Cards on our website. Press here to discover them. You’ll find the Truth Cards available for download below. Ready for your next step? Create your Transformation Board A space to declare your next chapter and walk boldly into your calling.